Episode 040: What’s Wrong With Me? (Part 2)

“What’s wrong with me?” Last week we took a serious look at this question and, today, we will discover the third component while peering deeper into the question.  Additionally, we will discover a second, even more profound question, that we must be asking ourselves.  Listen in today for a deeper look at the old question and discover the new question we must all be asking ourselves! 

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“Today you are You, that is truer than true. There is no one alive who is Youer than you.”    ~Dr. Seuss 

Show Notes:

3 Areas You May Find Yourself Stuck

1.  Patterns Repeated

  • Unhealthy patterns you tend to repeat and that need to be challenge 

2.  Desire to be Loved and Respected

  • The ‘What’s wrong with me?’ inquiry can occur as a response to not being invited to a party, being dismissed by someone, or  having a comment you made that is dropped/ignored/not responded to and having the concurrent feelings of rejection and disrespect that follow. 

3.  The Comparison Game –

  • Ask yourself, are you comparing yourself to people around you?  What do you hope to gain by doing so?
  •  Making comparisons is a dangerous game.
  • If you were to use comparison for good, it would look more like celebrating your sisters where they are in life and celebrating their successes. 
  • Another way to use comparison for good is to compare yourself to yourself.  You are changing very day, but can you say you are changing for the better?  

***If it is easier to name what is wrong with you, then for you it is important to begin naming and noticing ‘What is RIGHT with you’- your gifts, your skills, your successes, your talents, your character.*** 

Gal 6:4-5, 2 Cor 10:12, Ps 119:59, Heb 12:1, 1 Cor 11:28, Prov 3:5-6, Ps 139:13-14, Ps 139:2-4 

Freebie Alert! 

As I close out this 2-part series on ‘What’s Wrong With Me?’, I have created a worksheet with a series of questions and actions to assist you as you consider the ‘3 Areas You May Find Yourself Stuck’.